Here are some distinctions that are relevant to the permissibility of Roy Moore's behavior:

  • Dating, courtship, sex, and marriage.
  • Sex and rape.
  • Rape and statutory rape.
  • Law, custom, and morality.
  • What the law is and what the law should be.
  • What the law was and what the law is.
  • What the moral norms are and what the moral norms should be.
  • What the moral norms were and what the moral norms are.
  • Whether moral norms are absolute or defeasible.
  • Whether moral norms are universal or relative (to times, places, &c.).

By the way, I wrote the book (literally) on rape. Two of them, actually, plus many articles in prominent philosophical publications.